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Friday, October 7, 2016

Marriage, are you ready?

Assalamualaikum.

Usually this topic is rather a taboo to me. Well, I think to anyone who is single after 25, it is a rather sensitive issue to talk about. No objection to that.

I remember in my younger days (although I'm still young now at 30 ;p), I used to want to get married before 25. After 23, I made du'a to Allah that I would get married the next year. And a year passed and I prayed again for the year after that. At 27, there were times I would get very depressed at the thought of marriage. I thought to myself that maybe I was not worthy for any good man and that was why Allah has not answered my du'a yet. I cried so much when my best friend got married back in 2012, on the thought that I was losing a best friend, the thought that I wouldn't be with her as much anymore and to the thought that I'm not even close to marriage when she was already there. And it really worsen as I was facing depression due to my master's thesis. The only solace on that time was to the belief that whatever Allah has decreed upon me is the best for me. So to fill the void in my heart on that time I told myself that I would never get married, so stop thinking about it and be miserable at the thought, but be happy that I was single and I could do anything that I want. At that time I had stopped making du'a about marriage to get my mind off it all together and frankly, it felt so liberating. Free from the sad and desperate thought that always played at the back of my mind "When will I also get married?". That sad thought.

However that state didn't last very long. It did well for me for a few months I think, then a friend told me that I still should at least make du'a as to show my effort. So I made du'a to Allah, but not with that dark tinge of desperation anymore. However, the sad thoughts do visit frequently. And when I started to become desperate again, my mind came to light with this thought:

Everything that Allah has bestowed upon us is a form of ni'mah/blessing. Who are we to say that we are entitled to that ni'mah? Marriage, kids, money etc. Instead, we have so much in us that Allah has blessed us with, our good sights, good job, the fact that at the end of each month we can take our atm card and dispense cash because of it, yet have we, I, thank Allah fully for everything that I have owned? So, live for the moment and learn to be thankful for everything that Allah has given us before we desperately want another ni'mah from Allah. If He gives, it's because He wants to, not because we deserve to. Life is a test, in every aspect of it. The ni'mah in this dunya is much too little compared to what Allah has reserved for us in the aakhirah. It is okay if we are not blessed with every ni'mah in this dunya, but it is NOT okay if we miss to be among the crowds that Allah will place in His gardens, free from any hardship, misery and bestowed eternal happiness in His Jannah. That happy ending. Be thankful all the time and pray that we'll be among that crowd. Amin.

This conviction has always become a mantra that I hold whenever that lonely thought came to mind. That this life is too short to waste on thinking on what we don't have. Instead, focus on what we do have. Anyway, however perfect that notion is, I did have moments when I was overcome by loneliness that I crave for a companion. But not all the time. You know, being a female and have these hormones influencing you every month. Well, most of the time, I am sane :p.

These days, sometimes I came across statements made by my younger friends who were going through my mid-20s inner struggle. I really wanted to tell them to not be stressed about it, but it won't be easy. I think if I were to tell the young 20's me to not be stressed about it and focus on what I have instead, the notion wouldn't sink in very easily since my emotion would be too strong for my rational thinking. So those friends, they will come to see one day. I hope so. It's a cycle :)

Let's get to a more serious note on marriage.

We will always want what other people have, because we are humans. The normal thing that other people have and do, we want to have and do that too. We want to have someone whom we can call when have a good or a bad news to share without concerning if our call might disturb him or her at that particular hour. Someone whom we can confide our littlest secrets and silliest thoughts. Someone who will come running when our car broke down. A company to that eating place that we crave to eat. Someone who will pay for our dinner :p. 

The reality is, imaginations of marriage always come in the form of colors. We only fantasize the good images of it. The love, the friendship etc and never one really fantasize the dark side of it. 

At the age of 30, the idea of marriage has become an intimidating fantasy to me. I do realize now the silver lining to why Allah has delayed it for me. Being surrounded by a number of married couples around me, I came to learn on the dark sides of marriage. Trust me, marriage is not just about fairy tales. It takes effort to make a marriage work. There will be trials that come in the form of your partner, the in laws, the friends, or just jealous stranger. 

You never really know your spouse until you live with him/her. Sure, before you get married everything is laid out properly, convinced that you would be happy. But after you got married, when trials fall, then you'd see the true colors of your partner. 

Some people are tested with her partner being too controlling that she has to give up her social life for him. You can't befriend this person, you have to do this, do that. All because he holds too strongly to the notion that he is the leader of the house, the wife has to obey him no matter what or she'd be a disobedient wife. Or vice versa.

Some are tested with abusive husband, physically or emotionally. Some husbands expect that his wife serves him everything, become his personal maid. Some don't even care of what happens in his household as long as he can spend more time with his friends. And don't forget the trials that come with the presence of a third person in the marriage, be it the parents, in laws, friends, or even old girlfriend/boyfriend (s). 

The reality is, marriage is not a place where you seek fairy tales and continuous romance only. To go through marriage, one has to prepare to respect each other, to give up your ego, to be willing to give and take, to accept each other's weaknesses, to be forgiving, to be patient, to tolerate each other and to love each other to end. Undoubtedly, doing these won't be easy. That's why I came to learn that marriage is not easy. For those who survive marriage at this age, that truly is an achievement, don't you agree? 

That's why, before you jump to the million dollar question of 'when are you getting married?', you should think of whether or not you're ready to get married. And to my married friends or relatives who often see us the singles as the miserables who don't have a husband yet at our age, hey, life if not just about marriage and kids. We are not miserable, don't worry. Allah is setting our lives at our best conditions that we are capable of dealing for the mean time. 

Anyway, it does not mean I don't want to get married. I still do, with all my heart. I always pray that Allah gives me a husband that will grow with me together, to be my supporter, that he'll be my qurratu-'ain and I'll be his. And I leave that matter totally to Him. If he bless me with one, then I'm grateful. Until then, I'm still grateful to be single. :)

Again, as mentioned by Sheikh Abdul Bary Yahya:

"Being married and unmarried are both tests in patience". 

May we all excel.

1.04 pm 
Oct 7, 2016
-Hungryyyyyy.



p/s: suara yang mencuri hati :p :p :p



Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Ramadhan at 29

Assalamualaikum :-)

Today marks the night of 14th Ramadhan 1436 already. The time is flying too fast. It feels like only last week I started fasting then, what? Two weeks of ramadhan has passed!

Though I said in the title that my age is 29, the real one is already 30! My birthday in Hijri calendar was 29th Syawwal 1406H. So another 10 ramadhans I'll be forty and I can recite the du'a taught in the quran for the people who reach 40 :-)

Time flew. Really.

Tonight I was feeling resentful. Over so many things. Little thing could tick me off. Astaghfirullah. When I was praying starting Isya' to tarawikh, I just couldn't concentrate. I was distracted even merely with people in front of me not standing straight in line and a lady talking loudly to her child when other people was praying silently. Usually it bugs me but it didn't tick me off. I hate this unnecessary worked up feeling. I didn't want it but I failed to suppress it. In the end I was just tired fighting with it. Females and their hormones. How blessed are the men to not have their minds clouded with emotion? Okay lets just calm down.

Tonight I was reminiscising the ramadhans that I've spent. Every new Ramadhan I would pray that that Ramadhan is better than the previous ones. Habits developed gradually through the years alhamdulillah.

In my adolescent years, I started praying tarawikh in the local surau in my kampung. On that time, the one thing that we cared about was how happy we were when the tarawikh finished early. Tsk. Sadly in that mentality still existed to the extreme in some part of the world, that makes them feeling proud to finish 23 rakaah prayer in 7 minutes. Google the video :-)

I'd say the strength to do tarawikh is when you really realize its benefits. So since then I can't recall a single night that I didnt do tarawikh in Ramadhan. Either i prayed on my own or in jamaah at the masjid or with friends. Alhamdulillah. Thus it makes me really sad when I hear people don't strive for tarawikh in Ramadhan, especially when the person is a family. I really pray that Allah gives a better tarbiyah to my sister, whom I put so much hope on that she'll see the values to strive in chasing good deeds.

Back in RIT, I held the opinion that the best number of tarawikh that one should do at the masjid was 8. So I always prayed 8 and left when the imam continued  to complete 20. It was only in 2011, my second ramadhan in UM, that I started completing 20. The main reason was that was the year that I really tried to understand what the imam was reciting, so I could enjoy and take heed of the quran recitation. What I did was, I would track the page where the imam was reciting, recite the meaning before the start of prayer and then tried to match the meaning of the recitation to the translation that I read. It was eye opening mashaAllah. Besides, the imam at Masjid Ar-Rahman there recited really reaaally beautifully, and I felt such a loss to stop at only 8. Then from there I always tried to finish 20. Alhamdulillah. That year also Fariza, Ain and I did masjid hopping for tarawikh. We enjoyed driving to either magnificient Magnificient Masjid Biru in Shah Alam or to Masjid Besi in Putrajaya. I really enjoyed both masjids. Masjid biru was huge, and has numerous attendees that makes you felt like in Makkah (though I never had the chance to step there yet). Meanwhile, I also like the quiet setting of Masjid Besi, its vast open space for prayer room and beautiful landscape mashaAllah. I remembered hanging out with Ain after prayer at the sort of bridge connecting the masjid to the government building, just sit there and gaze at the quiet night scenery of Putrajaya. So serene, alhamdulillah. Far fom the hiruk pikuk of KL.

The following year, I was back in UTM. Though I really like Masjid UTM for tarawikh, the masjid hopping activity came to halt. I didn't find another masjid that I can enjoy better than masjid UTM. 2013, I started the experience of sleeping in the masjid during the last 10 nights of ramadhan. Alhamdulillah, thrilled. The next year, I was blessed with having friends who often sleep over in the masjid throughout the ramadhan. It was a very fun experience. Some of the friends even cooked for sahur and we had lots of food for sahur. Rice, sandwich, fruits, porridge etc. Too much food :-)

Okay going back to tarawikh experience, that year my understanding of the quran becomes better alhamdulillah, that I could understand most of quran recited even without the pre-read activity I used to do. I also started to finish up to witr prayer, after watching Muhammad al-Shareef's tarawikh truffles that he talks on the issue of doing 8 or 20. So he said just pray until the imam finishes. One who does that gets the reward of praying the whole night. So imagine you persevere with praying 20 rakaah of tarawikh but not following the 3 rakaah of witr, given in to the thought that you still want to do tahajjud, what a loss you're in! Right? So I realized I was missing so much for not knowing that. Besides, tahajud can still be made even after we prayed witr.

Last year's ramadhan, Zida, Kak su and myself did i'tikaf/sleeping in the masjid every night in Ramadhan. Better than the last year. However, it's probably because my spiritual state was not as sakinah as the previous year, I felt that the 2013's one was much better although I persistently stayed over in the masjid everyday.

This year, with no Zida around, that activity also came to halt. Kak su is experiencing a little health problem that hinders her comfort to sleep over at the masjid. However, I'm not really regretting that. I felt that last year, I was pushing myself too much to the point that I didn't enjoy that i'tikaf anymore. This year, I'm pushing myself while acknowledging my limit so I'd enjoy my ibadah more. InshaAllah :-)

One of my biggest ramadhan regrets is, I never finished the whole quran. InshaAllah this year will be the starting one. Pray for me :-)

12.15 am
14th Ramadhan 1436




Tuesday, June 2, 2015

First Stage Exam!

Assalamualaikum :)

In about three hours, I'll be presenting my research proposal to my examiners, Dr Zanariah and Prof Fahrul. Because I wanted to incorporate the growth curve in my presentation, I had to do it on Sunday, thus sacrificing my sleep for the night. So yesterday, being sleep deprived, I couldnt do anything else after completing the 25 hours sampling and went straight back to catch my sleep. It didnt really help though, I was drowsy until the evening.

I thought since I slept a lot in the afternoon, I'd really use my night time to study properly. Never knew that I would be afflicted with diarrhea at night, Allahu musta3an. Couldn't study at all.

So yeah now it's already morning, 3 hours away, my head feels blank, and body feels weak haha. Not sure how I'll do but I'm really putting my trust to Allah. Hopefully the things that I have already studied a month back will crawl back in and help me answering the examiners' queries.

Was it the sausage?

- Nauseated me-
7.54 am
Tuesday
June 2, 2015
Friday, September 26, 2014

I want to return

I look out my windows
I see the vast of Allah's creations
Trees so high stretching to the sky
The greens so calm soothing to my eyes
Birds flying as if proclaiming their magnificence of flight
One of the Lord's signs
Everything is submitting to Him, The Rabb, The One

I look at myself
Though I thought I'm not perfect, 
Allah has created me the best
With faculties so healthy I can sprint
Hearing and sight so great they need no aid
Head not afflicted with migraine or ache
I have so much blessings that I can't count
 
But
Why does it feel so hard to be grateful to my Lord
To make my life solely to worship Him
To make my actions to only seek His Pleasure
To suppress my desires that contradicts His order
When He is
The Malik who owns me
The Rabb who rules me
The Razzaq who feeds me
The Muhaimin who protects me

I always thought
The world of an adult drowns me
The continuous battle battered me
Drains my energy
Demotivates me..
Really?

Now that I think about it
I see it as plain excuses
It only drowns me because I left my heart hollow
It only battered me because I didn't gear myself best
It only drains my energy because I didn't strongly believe
Like Abu Bakr and 'Umar did
And it only demotivates me because I lack one thing
The strong love to my Lord, Allah

I constantly feed my soul with things that weaken it
I ignore my heart nagging me to stop it
I desire for it to be entertained 
I poisoned it with the love to this dunya 
So much that I complain of not getting the sweetness of emaan
Did I really thought I could handle the blaze of the Jahannam?
Did I have confidence for the life exam waiting in my grave?
Or can I even handle the terrifying face of Izrail?
What makes me brushed the fear away
As if I don't have to face it one day
That one scary day

I hope my Lord would forgive me
Guide me back to His path
Send me His tremendous mercy
Returns the longing I used to have in my heart for Him
Fills my heart with His love
So much that it would explode
The love that would make me race towards His way
The love that give me strength to go through another day
The love that would stop making me sway 
The love that would make me fear the day I might not see Him
If I die wretched not in the state of the best Muslim
O Allah protect me

O Allah please don't let me push me away
I want to return and treat this sick heart
From all taints I got of loving this dunya
And abandoning Your sweet remembrance
I felt like lost myself today
Help me O Allah
For I am not strong on my own





Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Age doesn't matter, does it?

Assalamualaikum,

It has been ages since I popped a word here :p.

A lot has happened since a year ago, though it felt like it has only been a month. See how fast time flies. Dear Police officer, please give a ticket to Time, it's been speeding. :|

So since the past year, I have drowned myself in many negative aspects of life. We had dramas with our Tutor contract, which was solved by all of us are required to do our PhD in UTM and graduate within 3 years. Oh well, though I was feeling hesitant to do PhD, since this is the path Allah is paving for me, so just take it. I also have delved in the inner guilt of personal sins so much that I felt it was hard to get back up again. In other words, I felt worthless in the sight of Allah. Indeed, syaitan entices us to sin and scare us with guilt that we don't deserve Allah's mercy. Allah's mercy is greater than our greatest sins, so inshaAllah, repent before it's too late.

I am now in the middle of nurturing myself towards being more positive and motivated. I lost most of my motivation especially during my masters' thesis writing, and not knowing what to do after that with work (since we Tutors dont really have real job). So all the negative feelings aside, it's motivation time. Let's take life's challenges head on.

There are many things that I need to tackle in life. But the main hurdle to tackle is myself. I sort of have this mental block of feeling LAZY to want anything. Back in my mind, I know that I want to excel in my study, but I was lazy to even want to study. I do want to excel in my faith, but I was lazy to even want to do ibadah. I want to be physically fit, I was lazy to even want to exercise. Laziness is indeed a disease.

Am I old? Oh God I don't want to be an old lady at 28. Hey, 28 only, still young ;) *Though sometimes I felt old since I'm mostly surrounded by younger labmates, usrahmates, students*. Sigh.

What was I like when I was young? Correction. Younger.

Rummaging through my old things, I found that I used to love seeking knowledge, and felt obliged to practice them. I used to travel much to attend seminars. Back then, I made it my duty to attend MSA weekly meeting listening to Imam Idrees spiritual talk, going to alMaghrib seminars, MISG programs etc. Now I just found myself having abundant of excuses and I just couldn't be bothered to do anything.

That's and old people trait isn't it?  o_o

I used to be someone who loves to try new things, life was more adventurous back then. I took archery, learnt racquetball, learnt ice-skating, etc and now I don't have much of new things going on. As I said in previous post, life has been mundane.

Another thing that often bothered my mind is the fact that I'm still single at 28. Though I tried to console myself with the fact that Allah gives what is best for you, sometimes I just have that sad thought. Ok, don't think of this as pathetic, it's not. Like I said, Allah gives what is best. It's just that hollow feeling everytime you hear a friend is getting married, you're like, I'm happy for you, but deep inside you'd also wish you have the same. Hahaha I don't know how to make this to not sound pathetic. It's not, really. Seriously. :p

 I realized that being single means I don't have to be responsible to additional people in my life. Allah is giving me chances to enjoy a single life. I dont have to ask permission to go out, I dont have to wake up at night to feed a baby ;p, and I don't have to burden my feeling missing a husband or child. Missing my nephews and nieces is already enough for now inshaAllah. Love is a complicated feeling. You love the feeling but at the same time you hate the misery it brings you ;p

Like Sh Abdul Bary said: Being married and un-married are both test in patience. :)

So what should I do to bring myself up?

1. Quran, quran, quran inshaAllah.

2. Explore new things. This makes me feel young. Last weekend we hike up the Hutan Lipur Soga, Batu Pahat. Though it was really just stairs climbing hike, unlike the challenging Gunung Belumut, Kluang that we went to last year, it was fun enough. Next, I want to hike on Gunung Ledang inshaAllah! And inshaAllah next year, Gunung Kinabalu!!!

3. Force myself to move my body. Need to plan my day to walk around or jog in the campus. Yosh. And free myself to play badminton with the GEMA peeps on Sunday nights. InshaAllah. Yosh.

4. Travel. Yeay! InshaAllah I'll be visiting Bandung next month for our lab trip. My next to visit is Tioman, and joining Dr Shahir's team exploring caves in Malaysia inshaAllah. Thrilled.

5. Learn new things. In my to do list: horse-riding and swimming!

InshaAllah though I can't achieve this in a blink, at least achieve something right?

Ok no more malas-malas inshaAllah. Let's start a new life. Should I say life starts at 28? ;p


Camping at SM Hidayah. Mukhayyam 2014.

- Age doesn't matter, as long as you don't feel and look like it :)

10 September 2014
Friday, June 14, 2013

Kenangan Terindah: PPCS Biotech May-June 2013

“Since getting back from Permata Pintar’s Summer Camp in UKM, I’ve been so in blues. I miss my students especially Afiq, and I miss my new but really close and fun friends, Dayah, Akmal, Nurul and Ustazah Wani. It has been a really fun two weeks in my life. I learnt a lot of new things and met many great people. I thank Allah for that.”

A week before the camp, I received a phone call from Dr Nor Sakinah, the Deputy Site Manager of Permata Pintar inviting me to be an instructor for a Biotech course during the school break. I hesitated at first because I actually applied for a teaching assistant (TA) post instead of an instructor, but she has managed to coax me that I would do fine with the help of a TA, none other than Dayah, Dr Azman’s student. Alhamdulillah that I was paired with Dayah J

So on the Thursday, 29th of May we drove over to UKM and registered as a TA and an Instructor for Biotech. Permata Pintar School is located in UKM but it’s a bit far inside that it took about 15-20 minutes from the main gate. We have to cross over the whole campus and pass through the lonely street in the middle of jungle to get to the school. But I think it was worth it. The school was surrounded by trees, and the air felt so fresh, and on clear night, we could even see a lot of stars. It really has a good environment for students to live and study.

So we got to the school, got our room keys and bedsheets, and head to our dorm. Yes, we were given a room in a dorm. At first, I thought like it was no way we could live in that place because it was rather unkept, the floor has no carpet nor ‘tikar’, just plain cement floor and it was hell dusty. Although sleepy and tired from the journey, we cleaned up the place first, swept the floor and mopped it, and settled down. After that it didn’t feel that bad at all. In fact, it was quite nice.

Across our room was Akmal and Nurul’s and next to them was Ustazah Wani’s. Rather immediately we have become so friendly with each other although we have just met. Maybe that’s what they said, sometimes when we can get close to someone rather fast although we’ve never met that person before, maybe we have been friends during the world of ‘ruh’. I think it’s true. J And Dr Arif (PPCS Site Manager) used to tell us, one day at Permata Pintar is like 10 years.

Last night. Bbq night. Akmal, Dayah, Me, Ustazah Wani and Nurul. Snapped by Afiq :)

Prior to the start of class on Monday, we have to prepare for the class. With the help of a Key Instructor, Kak Zana, we got the ideas of what topics we have to teach and things we need for teaching. So starting from the second day, we have been so busy. Since Friday, we have talks with the Director of the program, with the ice-breaking and guidelines on what to do during the camps etc. Only on Saturday we got to see our key instructor, Kak Zana and get the module for Biotech course. Kak Zana taught the previous year’s course, but the module was for a 3-week program. So we have to squeeze many things to fit them into two weeks. Then we have to prepare the new module, get the Biotech things out from the store, get prepared for the first class.

When the class started (Monday – Friday, 8.30 am – 4.30 pm)

It has all started. The first time I met the students, I was rather nervous because it was the first time I was going to teach school students, but at the same time, I felt excited! We started with Ice-Breaking, playing “Two truths and one lie” and then proceeded with pre-test. From the test, we concluded that a few in the class have a bit of basics about Biology and there are many who didn’t. It was quite a challenge but Alhamdulillah a fun challenge. Also, we mentioned to them that they could just call us Kak Dilin and Kak Dayah, but they called us Teacher or Cikgu instead. I guess they are not used to calling a teacher as a 'Kak'. Being called as "Teacher" made me felt honored. That name is  an honored name. And I love it! haha. Although I'm not really a teacher, and sometimes I felt like I don't deserve that name, but it made me feel happy, and cool Only towards the end of the camp, as they got comfortable with us, sometimes especially outside class they called us Kak Dayah and Kak Dilin. 


Back from left: Adam, Hewa, Alif, Afiq, Lincoln, Yin Hong and Izzat
Front from left: Moh, Mashitah, Dayah, Me, Nisa, Ain, Amirah and Ririn

In our class, many of the students were rather shy and quiet on the first day. Well, that was expected since they didn’t really know each other yet. But Alhamdulillah I have a few students who were responsive since the first day, Lincoln, Hewa and Afiq. So they made the class not-so-boring. We started learning about cells in the morning, and made them built models of plant and animal cells. In the afternoon, after lunch many were becoming sleepy-head but it was during the time I taught them about cell division, mitosis and meiosis. And during that time, Mr Ragu (The academic dean) came over to the class for teacher’s evaluation. God, on the first day? I thought he was just visiting lol. Ah, I don’t wanna care. But really it didn’t do good since the class looked boring *only on that time Mr Ragu!*. The rest of the days they were rather energetic. Anyhow, I gave my whole energy for that first day, walking around, make sure the students understood what I taught, making myself look energetic so the students would also be active etc. By the time class ended, I was flattened out. I was lethargic! But it was worth it. Although my legs felt wobbly on that evening, I was happy. I have become a teacher! J

I have always wanted to be a teacher. My secret ambition when I was little was to be a teacher, but then I thought a teacher don’t make that much, so I changed it to a lecturer. But obviously I was wrong lol. Never mind that. So I’ve always have this desire to be a substitute teacher whatsoever, just to have an experience in teaching, but I never got that chance. I have been imagining how I would teach if I were a teacher, how to explain things to make it easier to understand, and how to make students participative. And I’ve got to apply that at the PPCS! Awesome!

The rest of the days, we learnt more about cells and organelles, going deeper to the genes and DNA, exposed to them about genetic engineering and microbiology. It was a fun 2-week. To make the class fun, we’ve always started the class with a quiz, to review them about the topics they have studied. Well, since many students are competitive, making them compete with each other in quizzes was really fun. In the beginning the stars during quizzes are Afiq, Lincoln and Hewa. They have to raise up their hands before answering any question and the fastest in doing that gets to answer. Usually, when it comes to speed, Afiq was always the fastest one. He has a good reflex. And that made many of them like, Afiq again? Lol I didn’t always pick Afiq, gave chances for everyone to answer *wink*. During the classes, what was even more fun was watching the reserved students developing. Maybe on the first day, many would hesitate to raise their hand to ask question or answer a quiz, but after a few days, almost everyone was competing with Afiq. Some like Moh would be jumping up and down at the back, some like Mashitah would stand on her chair, and even most quiet Ririn and Ain also rose up their hands to answer. Cool right? And I made sure that they got a reward if their group won the quiz J Yeah, I have full stock of candies and snacks for rewards J Hurm kids love reward don’t they? Halal bribe lol. I also gave out candies when they were sleepy. So now I know their favorite reward is Crispy (chocolate), Mamee and Cloudnine candy. I should have snapped some pictures of them answering quizzes. Tsk.


 To Be Continued
Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Sharing: Emad alMansary


Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullah.


Sorry I've been quiet. Just being a bit occupied :)

Remember in a post before I talked about the beautiful recitation of Emad alMansary right? So here is the recitation for you. It still wins as my favorite for now :)

Download: Emad-Furqan


I love the recitation and also the surah because it is complete in reminders. It has reminders of hellfire and paradise (jannah), particularly, these few verses that always reminds me of the love of Allah. How Allah has provided for us so many blessings so crucial to our lives, that we sometimes take for granted.


Sahih International
Have you not considered your Lord - how He extends the shadow, and if He willed, He could have made it stationary? Then We made the sun for it an indication.

Sahih International
Then We hold it in hand for a brief grasp.

Sahih International
And it is He who has made the night for you as clothing and sleep [a means for] rest and has made the day a resurrection.

Sahih International
And it is He who sends the winds as good tidings before His mercy, and We send down from the sky pure water

Sahih International
That We may bring to life thereby a dead land and give it as drink to those We created of numerous livestock and men.

Sahih International
And We have certainly distributed it among them that they might be reminded, but most of the people refuse except disbelief.

Sahih International
And if We had willed, We could have sent into every city a warner.

Sahih International
So do not obey the disbelievers, and strive against them with the Qur'an a great striving.

Sahih International
And it is He who has released [simultaneously] the two seas, one fresh and sweet and one salty and bitter, and He placed between them a barrier and prohibiting partition.

Sahih International
And it is He who has created from water a human being and made him [a relative by] lineage and marriage. And ever is your Lord competent [concerning creation].


And also the last few verses that reminds us the virtues of a believer. So hope that we be one of them.


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Blessed is He who has placed in the sky great stars and placed therein a [burning] lamp and luminous moon.

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And it is He who has made the night and the day in succession for whoever desires to remember or desires gratitude.

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And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace,

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And those who spend [part of] the night to their Lord prostrating and standing [in prayer]

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And those who say, "Our Lord, avert from us the punishment of Hell. Indeed, its punishment is ever adhering;

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Indeed, it is evil as a settlement and residence."

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And [they are] those who, when they spend, do so not excessively or sparingly but are ever, between that, [justly] moderate

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And those who do not invoke with Allah another deity or kill the soul which Allah has forbidden [to be killed], except by right, and do not commit unlawful sexual intercourse. And whoever should do that will meet a penalty.

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Multiplied for him is the punishment on the Day of Resurrection, and he will abide therein humiliated -

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Except for those who repent, believe and do righteous work. For them Allah will replace their evil deeds with good. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful.

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And he who repents and does righteousness does indeed turn to Allah with [accepted] repentance.

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And [they are] those who do not testify to falsehood, and when they pass near ill speech, they pass by with dignity.

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And those who, when reminded of the verses of their Lord, do not fall upon them deaf and blind.

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And those who say, "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous."

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Those will be awarded the Chamber for what they patiently endured, and they will be received therein with greetings and [words of] peace.

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Abiding eternally therein. Good is the settlement and residence.

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Say, "What would my Lord care for you if not for your supplication?" For you [disbelievers] have denied, so your denial is going to be adherent.

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